So.....first blog i guess should be something that may be worth a read.
My name is phil. im 20 and live in a little town. nothing special but i tell u what i live in a very touristic town but my friends definatly have no bother about that. its gotten a little silly round here lately if i am to be honest. Only Yesturday my friend told me he was skateboarding on the road into town. he was working the early shift so town was empty and a police car pulled alongside him and asked him to stop. he did as much and they said he sholdnt be skating on the road. so he picked up his board hopped onto the path and continued on his way. only 2 minuites later to see the same police car tell him to stop. so again he stopped and the police said he is not allowed to skate. Now don't get me wrong but the council demolished the local skate park and the buses are not exactly punctual so my friend said "Where am i supposed to skate then" and the unkindly officer replied "you aren't" that to me is ridiculous and then the officer issed my friend with an £80 antisocial behaviour fine. that i find appauling. he tried to argue it but instead of arguing the officers decided to take him to the station and leave him in a cell overnight to "think about what he had done". last time i checked it is not illegal to skateboard on a pavement and deninatly not fine worth. bastards that they are.
anyway. I attended a meal last night with some friends and my best friend is his lovely girl. incase of any users who i might know im code naming her daisy. so im sat with daisy and were having a discussion with this couple when she puts her feet up across my legs. this always make me laugh because i always joke that we must look like a married couple. it wasn't untill i was taken aside by my friend in the couple and told that he thinks she likes me that i started to notice some things. i mean we are quite constatly mistaked as a couple. which we shrug of but it gets annoying after a while. but when i sit and think about it if i dont see her for a few weeks it makes me a bit sad and the fact shes moving soon makes me quite upset but i think i may be confusing feelings and friendship. now "daisy" is a lovely girl who knows me far more then i would like and isnt afraid to point out when im wrong haha. but i love her far too much as a friend then to ever even think about her in another way. my friends all seem to think i just want to "get on it" with her. they couldnt be more wrong.
Ok, major subject change now. I'm in the middle of a dilemma. I work as an engineer for my parents firm and i enjoy what i do. but there's a guy i have to work with as i cant drive yet and i have worked with him for 2 years and its safe to say we are sick of eachother but as hes the only other engineer locally i have to work with him. im currently looking for another job and have spoken to the boss and she told me that its not a problem and if i ever decide to come back in the future i'm more then welcome as there will always be a job open for me. but yet i dont wish to leave as i really do enjoy what i do. u can see my dilemma.
I find friendships difficult to maintain. i've discovered 2 types of friendships when it comes to people in a relationships, you get the dreaded "settlers" i.e. people who rarely leaeve the house for anything other then work or seeing thier loved one and once every while they will make plans to see u which coincide with when there other half isn't busy and as soon as the other half is free again they are off. i feel like im something you would find on sky plus to watch while you wait for the husband to come home from work. some mild entertainment for 40 minuites to stop you feeling guilty. But on the other hand you get the people who dont sit so comfy in this relationship "box". I call These the "Defendants", you decide to talk about the relationship with these people your in for a shock. they enjoy listing they're other halfs worst habbits and also constantly informing you that they dislike the fact they're attached to another person. Normally the "seeing eachother" time of these people is triple the time of any other relationship. why can't 2 single people meet. enjoy eachothers company and then go off and see friends or go and have dinner with they're partner and then invite friends to join? I realise i sound whiney but its not the case.
